Many divorces may seem triggered by a specific event, but the end of the marriage usually begins long before either party starts thinking of splitting up. Experienced divorce attorneys know that, over time, a failure to communicate or the pressure of daily life can push couples apart, causing rifts in the family that are difficult to repair. Below are some of the most common warning signs that your marriage may be in trouble.

5 Warning Signs of a Divorce 

1. Arguments Devolving into Personal Attacks

All couples fight, but the character of those arguments can reveal a great deal about the state of your relationship. Arguments that consist of generalizations or belittling the other person almost always initiate patterns of behavior that can often end in divorce.

2. Expressing Contempt for a Partner

Dismissive actions or comments can include rolled eyes, sighs, or malicious humor intended to hurt the other person. Contemptuous behavior makes honest communication and a loving environment almost impossible, and will often grow worse over time.

3. Not Listening to Complaints

When one spouse has a complaint, the other should listen carefully and try to begin a conversation, even if they don’t believe the criticism is valid. Deflecting, repeating statements without listening, or responding with an unrelated complaint are all signs that communication has broken down.

4. Avoiding Conflict at All Costs

If only one spouse is being heard, they may simply walk out or shut down to avoid conflict. These actions might keep the peace in the short term, but in the long term, they leave the other spouse feeling ignored and isolated. In many cases, the withdrawing spouse no longer wants to save the marriage and often ends up speaking with a divorce attorney.

5. Refusing to Back Down

When either or both spouses feel the need to “win” rather than just be heard, or the need to “get even” or keep score, the relationship is in trouble. It is difficult to look at the question of “What did I do to help get us here?” and the refusal to do so in a troubled marriage can result in divorce.

Being aware of some of the warning signs listed herein may help maintain a healthy marriage relationship. However, if you’re unable to make your marriage work and believe divorce is your final option, the divorce attorneys at the Watson Law Firm of Harrison can make all the difference during these difficult times. Their team has over 35 years of combined experience helping clients throughout Harrison, AR, protect their interests as they navigate the complexities of the legal system. Visit their website for an overview of their family law services, follow their Twitter for more legal tips, or call (870) 704-4037 to schedule a consultation with a divorce attorney today.