In most circumstances when someone passes away, their loved ones are often left to compose an appropriate obituary. Today, however, many people are choosing to write their own memorial piece. While approaching the subject might seem daunting, many people find it to be an uplifting and positive experience. Here are a few reasons to consider composing your own.

Perspective

An obituary should be one to two paragraphs in length and include basic information, such as career and education, the names and relations of your surviving loved ones, and hobbies or interests. It should be written in the third person and include important milestones like marriages or military service. The funeral home will add details about arrangements later, but you can choose to include any charities or causes to which you would like donations made in your name.

While the act of compiling this information may seem simple and straightforward, the beauty of writing your own piece is that it gives you the freedom to tell your personal experience as you see fit. It reveals who you are, as well as what you have experienced and accomplished. By composing your own life memo, it may allow for the self-realization of the many accomplishments and experiences that you have completed throughout your years. It also limits the likelihood of any potential errors or oversights. 

Reflection

Writing your own obituary gives you the opportunity to reflect on your life thus far. Considering your achievements is a good starting point for composing the piece, but it may also shed light on the powerful impact you’ve made on others. Reflecting on how far you’ve come may also be enlightening: it can be remarkable to behold the personal growth you’ve achieved when it’s chronicled on paper.

You might also take inventory of any areas of your life that still feel unfinished. Proving deeper into your life may help you live more intentionally and avoid any future regret over things left undone.

In addition to composing an obituary as an act of self-reflection, you might also consider pre-planning your memorial arrangements to ensure your final wishes are fulfilled. If you’re exploring your pre-planning options, contact the compassionate professionals from Robert W. Waid Funeral Home in Meadville, PA. For more than 100 years, their caring team has respectfully honored the lives of locals and can be reached 24/7 to assist you during your time of need. Learn more about pre-arrangements by visiting their website or call (814) 724-1021 to reach a staff member.