Many people view the winter holidays as a season of good cheer and pleasant memories. Although some parents going through a separation might see it differently, experienced divorce attorneys know there are ways of smoothing the rough patches. Here are a few tips for divorcing parents, so splitting up holiday time with the kids is less stressful for everyone.

3 Tips for Sharing the Kids During the Holidays

1. Keep Your Child’s Best Interests in Mind

Divorce attorneys remind their clients that in custody matters, the legal standard is what is in the best interests of the child. Applying that standard helps parents make wise decisions, so their children can thrive—despite their parents’ breakup.  

2. Avoid Playing Games

If you want to make special plans with your children, let your spouse know well in advance. You’re more likely to get the other parent to cooperate when you don’t spring the information on them at the last minute. 

3. Consider Celebrating Together

If you and your soon-to-be ex are splitting up on friendly terms, consider spending time together with your children. You might teach them valuable lessons about love and relationships and give them a gift they will cherish. As much as possible, cooperate with your ex on current and future plans. Making a schedule for the next year or two can cut down on arguments, especially if long-distance travel plans must be made. Keep in mind that what works when the kids are 7 or 8 years old might not work when then they turn 12 or 13.    

When you are planning a holiday schedule for your children during a separation, a skilled divorce attorney at Privette Law Office is ready to guide you through the process. Residents in the Willow Springs, MO, area have depended on the firm’s sound and practical advice and vigorous representation in family law matters since 1984. Learn more about their legal services by visiting their website, or call (417) 469-3535 to schedule an appointment with a divorce attorney today.