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If you’ll be attending a funeral soon, whether it’s for your loved one or someone else’s, there are certain etiquette tips professionals recommend observing. While most people are aware of some, like wearing black as a sign of respect and mourning, others are a bit less well-known but just as important. Here are three you should keep in mind while you’re getting ready for the ceremony.

A Guide to Funeral Etiquette

1.  When to Arrive

It’s best to be at the ceremony on time. This gives you the chance to experience each portion of the service and interact with the other mourners. Sometimes, however, being late can’t be helped, so if this happens, just enter the room as quietly as possible, and take a seat in the back. You can offer your condolences later.

2. What to Say

funeralFinding the right words is challenging for many people, whether they lost someone or are comforting someone else. Either way, it’s best to just stick to the basics. If you belong to the former category, a simple “thank you” to each individual who offers their condolences is more than enough. If you fall in the latter category, saying, “I’m very sorry for your loss. This must be incredibly difficult,” will let the family know you care.

3. Whether You Should Bring Children

Debating whether to bring the kids to the ceremony? If you have an infant or toddler at home, it’s best to find a caregiver for the day. Little ones require attention at these ages and may find it tough to sit quietly through the service. Older children who behave are welcome at the funeral parlor.

 

The compassionate staff at Johnson-Kennedy Funeral Home in Canandaigua, NY, understands how difficult navigating funeral etiquette can be for mourners and attendees alike. They have been helping area families hold personalized ceremonies that honor deceased loved ones for over a century. They also provide graveside and cremation services. For more information about their offerings, call (585) 394-4280 or visit them online today.

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