If you’re planning or going through a divorce, the process can go more smoothly by hiring a good attorney. An attorney might recommend mediation to resolve disputes between you and your spouse. Here’s what you should know about the mediation process and how to prepare for it.

What Is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is a method of resolving conflicts between spouses, enabling them to reach fair settlements on issues, such as child custody and property division. A mediator is a neutral third party who helps both sides discuss problems and options and focus on coming to an agreement.

What Can You Expect at a Mediation Session?

A mediation session typically takes place with both spouses present in the room with the mediator. If you choose, your attorney can be present to advise you and explain the legal and practical impact of your potential decisions. When a high level of conflict exists between parties, the mediator conducts the session with each party in a separate room and goes back and forth between them.

Unlike a judge, the mediator does not make decisions for you; unlike a divorce attorney, the mediator does not give legal advice or represent either spouse. The mediator’s role includes setting an agenda, defining the issues you want to resolve, discovering hidden interests, proposing settlement options, and helping with final negotiations between you and your spouse.

How Can You Prepare for Mediation?

When attending a mediation session, you should bring notes about the issues that bother you. Be prepared to listen and express your feelings and concerns honestly. Try to keep an open mind about suggestions for solutions you might not have considered. Mediation sessions are confidential, so you can feel comfortable revealing personal information to the mediator that might help resolve issues.

When divorcing couples have disputes, divorce mediation offers an option for resolving them. At the Law Office of Michael Davidson, PLLC, divorce attorney Michael Davidson offers wise legal counsel to clients before, during, and after mediation. Backed by more than 30 years of experience, he provides strong and effective advocacy at mediation tables and in courtrooms throughout the state of Kentucky and beyond. Call (859) 225-1717 to schedule an appointment with a divorce lawyer, or visit him online to learn more about his firm.