Marriage may be between two spouses, but it is based on the concept of merging two families. As a result, the spouses are not the only ones who are affected in the event of divorce. If you’ve decided to end your marriage, telling friends and loved ones probably feels like an overwhelming hurdle. Although it can be challenging regardless of the circumstances, there are ways to break the news with maximum tact and minimal stress. An attorney can recommend when to tell people, but how you opt to do so is up to you.

3 Tips for Telling Loved Ones You're Getting Divorced

1. Keep It Short & Simple

In many cases, the easiest way to break bad news is to just say it. If you feel the need to rehearse what you’re going to say, it could be a sign that you’re planning on saying too much. You may want to divulge more details to some family members and not others, but consider keeping the initial conversation relatively short with everyone so your loved one can process the news and you can process his or her reaction.

2. Avoid Dictating Sides

If you do not have any children, it may be entirely possible to avoid seeing your ex ever again once the divorce has been finalized. Those who have kids, on the other hand, must remember that they are going to have to maintain some kind of relationship with their ex, and many of their family members probably will as well. To mitigate drama at every birthday party, graduation, and major milestone, avoid asking loved ones to take sides.

3. Ask for What You Need

Your closest friends and family members are going to want to help as soon as they hear the news, but they may not know what to do. When you tell them about the divorce, don’t be afraid to ask for help, and don't be afraid to be specific. Those who have kids, for example, can ask for help babysitting. And, those who need legal counsel can ask for attorney referrals.

If you need a divorce law attorney in Connecticut, turn to Weingast Law. Based in Hartford, this firm offers comprehensive counsel in family law, criminal defense, and personal injury law. Attorney Weingast has been representing clients throughout the area for over 35 years. He knows how to put clients at ease from day one so they can talk openly and honestly about the legal challenges they are facing. To request an initial consultation, visit his website or call (860) 233-1440.