Funeral services are an emotional and difficult time for families, but they can bring closure and offer a chance to say goodbye to the deceased. However, many funeral attendees are unsure about whether it’s acceptable to bring children to the service. If you’re making this decision, it’s important to balance the factors at play.

Questions to Ask Before Bringing Children to a Funeral Service

How Helpful Will it Be to the Child?

The closer your child was to the deceased, the more likely they are to need and benefit from the funeral service. It offers them a chance to grapple with emotions and move forward in the grieving process, and also teaches them how to handle future loss and memorial services.

Will the Child Be Disruptive?

Older children understand more and therefore get more benefit from a ceremony. On the other hand, young children often find it difficult to sit still or stay quiet for a long time, which can make them a distraction for other mourners during a funeral service. You need to weigh the emotional benefit to your child against their impact on other attendees. Consider how well behaved they are and whether or not they have experience sitting calmly and quietly in public.

How Can You Prepare Your Child?

If you decide to bring your child to a funeral service, you should prepare them for the experience. Give them a rough idea of how long the funeral will last and what they’ll see and hear. For children who were close to the deceased, you may want to give them a job or role in the funeral service to help them feel included and to keep them occupied.

For assistance in preparing for a loved one’s funeral service, contact Cannon Cleveland Funeral Directors in McDonough, GA. For almost 75 years, they have provided personalized service to Henry County residents, tailoring each service to appropriately honor the deceased and comfort the family. To arrange a consultation, call (770) 914-1414 or visit them online to learn more about their services.