With the divorce rates what they are, it’s reasonable to assume that at least of few of your friends will end their marriage someday. And when they do, you’ll probably feel utterly helpless. Watching a loved one struggle is hard, especially if you have no control over the situation. Fortunately, there are still ways you can help, from recommending a strategic divorce lawyer to providing emotional support at every stage. Here are just a couple of tips for getting started. 

Offer to Help in Specific Ways

When you say, “let me know if you need anything,” you probably mean it, but that doesn’t necessarily mean your friend will reach out. Most people find it hard to ask for help, especially if someone offers a relatively open-ended gesture. Instead, offer—or insist—to help in specific ways. Bring over some hot meals, take the kids for a few hours on weekdays, research local divorce lawyers, go apartment hunting together, or just call your friend often so he or she can vent as needed. 

Focus on the Future 

Those in the process of ending their marriage often feel like the stress will never subside. Remind your friend that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. The thought of starting over might be scary, but it can also be liberating. Your friend can pack up and move away, pick up old hobbies, start a new workout routine, or even pursue a new career. And when he or she is ready to reenter the dating scene, introduce other single friends, help with an online dating profile, or offer to babysit on date night. 

If your friend has yet to find adequate legal counsel—or you’re thinking about ending your own marriage—turn to John D. Wieser, Esq., PC. Representing clients throughout Rochester and Getzville, this seasoned divorce lawyer is well versed in New York family law. He understands that ending a marriage is fraught with emotional and financial stress and is proud to serve as the voice of reason when clients need one most. Whether you are concerned about asset division, custody, or child support—or all three—you can count on John D. Wieser, Esq., PC to protect your best interests. Visit the practice online to learn more about his family law services, or call (585) 328-0660 to schedule an initial consultation with this divorce lawyer.