When a loved one passes away, you might be given the responsibility of giving a eulogy at their funeral. The speech is intended to be a term of endearment, highlighting their remarkable life lived and how much they will be missed. Here are a few tips to help craft and deliver an appropriate eulogy to honor the deceased.

3 Tips for Writing & Delivering a Respectful Funeral Eulogy

1. Include Anecdotes From Friends & Family

Often, the person reading the eulogy is speaking for everyone in attendance at the funeral who was close to the deceased. To ensure friends’ and family members’ voices are represented, ask them about memorable moments they shared with the individual. When writing the eulogy, these stories can be included as anecdotes in the speech. Some of the tales might be humorous, which could help lighten the mood at an otherwise somber gathering.

2. Keep Timing in Mind

Although you might be able to go on endlessly about the person’s life, relationships, and accomplishments, try to keep the speech concise. This will ensure there is still time for other events at the funeral service. After writing the speech, rehearse it several times. Time yourself and try to keep the entire eulogy under the 10-minute mark.

3. Practice Delivering the Eulogy

After you have worked on the timing of the speech, recite it as much as possible leading up to the funeral. This way, you can practice how words string together to reduce the likelihood of stammering later. Having practiced what you intend to say and where to place pauses will also help you relax while the eulogy is being delivered.

If you need additional help writing a eulogy or planning a funeral service, the caring, compassionate team at Frederick Funeral Home can help. Since 1932, the staff at this family-owned and -operated funeral home has been helping residents throughout the Greater Cincinnati, OH, area create touching, thoughtful funerals to help say final goodbyes to the dearly departed. To discuss arranging a funeral in the Cincinnati area, call (513) 522-3700. An associate is more than happy to answer questions about the planning process. Visit the funeral directors online for a closer look at service options.