Whether you’re planning in advance or are still struggling with a loved one’s unexpected passing, preparing a funeral can be an emotionally trying experience. However, understanding a few basics of the process can go a long way towards lessening your burden and ensuring that memorial services go smoothly. Here’s what you should do to get started.

First Steps

You must first determine the type of memorial service you want. This should account for the deceased’s personal wishes — be it a standard burial, cremation, or another method. Look for a funeral home that can fulfill these desires at a price you can afford. Be sure to choose a provider that can perform the desired type of ceremony as well, be it secular or religious.

Meaningful Services

The main goal of a funeral is to offer a chance for friends and relatives to say goodbye and reflect upon the life of the deceased. As such, your planning should consider what factors will be most meaningful to those in attendance. What will capture your loved one’s personality or beliefs?

Among the elements of the service you should consider are who will speak, what type of music will be performed, and which readings you might wish to use. Some families choose to add other hints of personalization by showing videos or displaying their relative’s memorabilia so that others can view it before or during the service. Contact everyone who will participate in the services (including pallbearers) well in advance to ensure that everything proceeds without incident.

Do you need help planning a loved one’s funeral? The caring team at Silver Creek Mortuary in McKinley County, NM, has provided thoughtful assistance to area residents since 2003, with special emphasis on traditional arrangements for members of the Navajo Nation. To learn more about how they can help your family, visit them online or call (505) 371-3690.