Mediation is a common method divorcing couples can use to resolve issues, such as the distribution of property, child custody and support, and spousal maintenance. It offers a casual alternative to formal litigation proceedings, as the parties sit down with a neutral third party with the goal of negotiating a mutually agreeable divorce settlement. If you have decided to end your marriage, it is helpful to know the basics of mediation so you can determine whether or not it is the right choice for your situation. 

What You Can Expect During Divorce Mediation 

Information Gathering 

The beginning of mediation is designed to lay the foundation for the rest of the process. The mediator will gather background information on your situation, and you will assess which issues you and your spouse agree on and where you need help reaching an agreement. After everyone recognizes what needs to be accomplished, you will both work with the mediator to develop a plan for attaining your goals. 

Negotiating an Agreement 

Next, you are ready for negotiations to begin. You will likely begin with the less complicated issues of your divorce and work your way up to the ones that create the most conflict. Though they are not there to make decisions for you, the mediator will help you stay on track and generate possible solutions. They will also encourage you to be open and honest and listen to one another in an effort to get on the same page. 

Finalizing the Agreement 

If negotiations have been successfully completed, either the mediator or your divorce lawyer will draft a written agreement outlining the terms. This will be added to the rest of your divorce paperwork and become an official part of your divorce judgment. This means if either party fails to uphold their end of the agreement, a court will have the ability to enforce it. 

When choosing a mediator, look for someone who has specific experience overseeing divorce cases and practicing family law. Residents throughout Monroe, Vernon, Trempealeau, Juneau, and Buffalo counties in Wisconsin and Houston, Winona and Fillmore counties in Minnesota turn to Guillien Van Nuland LLC for guidance through the mediation process. Over the past two decades, the firm’s attorneys have helped numerous clients navigate the various complexities that arise when a marriage ends. Call (608) 782-4411 to discuss how they can assist you in achieving a favorable divorce settlement, or visit them online for more information.