Divorce proceedings are contentious by their very nature, but some spouses try to cooperate with each other so they can resolve everything relatively fast. However, if one or both parties are unwilling to compromise, the couple will face a contested divorce. In such a scenario, the spouses cannot agree on either ending the marriage or on the terms of the split, such as those regarding asset division and child custody. Although each party can hire a divorce lawyer to facilitate the proceedings, it is not uncommon for a contested case to drag on for months—or even years. Facing such a legal hurdle is undoubtedly stressful, but fortunately, there are ways to handle the proceedings with grace.

Establish a Support System

Ending a marriage is a major life transition, and it’s natural to feel sad about doing so regardless if divorce is the best decision. To keep feelings of depression, loneliness, and isolation at bay, establish a strong support system that you can turn to as needed. It might include friends, family members, a therapist, and even a divorce lawyer, all of whom can help alleviate much of the stress you are facing in their own way. 

Protect Yourself

Since you probably know the opposing party better than anyone, your divorce lawyer may ask why you think he or she is contesting the split. Based on your answer, an attorney will anticipate potential disputes and devise strategies for mitigating them while protecting your best interests every step of the way. Even if you’re unsure why the divorce is being contested, there are ways to protect yourself. For example, saving text messages, copying essential financial documents, and staying off social media can all help achieve a more favorable outcome to the case.

If you want to end your marriage but foresee a contested divorce, turn to John D. Wieser, Esq., PC. Located in Monroe County, NY, this strategic divorce lawyer is proud to help clients secure favorable outcomes to even the most complicated legal disputes. In addition to family law, his areas of expertise include criminal defense, bankruptcy, and real estate transactions. Learn more about his services by visiting his website or by calling (585) 328-0660.