A funeral is a somber experience, giving mourners the opportunity to say their final goodbyes to a loved one and reminisce on shared experiences. These services can be a source of consolation and comfort for many. As a guest, respectful behavior is an absolute must. If you are attending a funeral, following these etiquette tips will ensure you provide proper respect.

Do:

Follow the dress code.

Funerals are typically a formal occasion, with church dress being the norm. If in doubt, wear your nicest clothes, selecting dark colors. Check if the family has specific requests for funeral attire, as some individuals prefer a more casual atmosphere for their services.

Arrive on time.

Few things could disrupt the funeral like showing up late. Plan to arrive at least ten minutes early to ensure you get to your seat on time. An early arrival may also give you a better opportunity to express your condolences to family members.

Don’t:

Bring your cell phone.

People take their phones everywhere these days, but a funeral should be an exception to the rule. Forgetting to silence your cell phone could disrupt the service. Checking for texts or even taking photos during the proceedings is also rude. Avoid temptation by leaving your phone in the car.

Leave kids behind.

While it may be a good idea to leave especially young children with a babysitter, kids 6 years of age or older shouldn’t be barred from the services — especially if they knew the deceased. However, teaching your kids about the importance of respectful behavior prior to the service is always a good idea.

With proper etiquette, you can bring peace and comfort to your fellow mourners. For those planning the funeral services, working with the right individuals will also ensure respectful memorialization. Serving New Haven County, CT, for over 75 years, Porto Funeral Homes helps families with everything from pre-planning to burial services. To learn more about how their compassionate staff can assist you, visit them online or call (203) 467-3000 for East Haven or (203) 934-5000 for their West Haven location.