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4 Ways to Manage Family Conflicts Regarding Home Elderly Care November 21, 2018

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4 Ways to Manage Family Conflicts Regarding Home Elderly Care, Newark, New York

When a loved one reaches their golden years, they may require help from a caregiver to maintain the household and stay healthy. The process of setting up home elderly care can be stressful for any family. If you’re struggling with the process, here are a few tips to mediate disputes and ensure your senior family member receives proper assistance. 

How to Handle Family Disagreements Regarding a Loved One’s Home Elderly Care 

1. Find Common Ground

Every family has its share of tension and disagreements. When it comes to managing the needs of a senior loved one, try to put your differences aside and focus on ensuring your family member has what they need to enjoy a high quality of life. If you have trouble communicating with siblings, aunts, or uncles, consider bringing in an intermediary or home health care provider who has experience working with families. 

2. Prioritize Your Loved One’s Needs

Home Elderly CareBefore moving forward with a care plan, discuss and prioritize your elderly loved one’s needs, whether it be grooming assistance, medication help, cleaning, or companionship. Before hiring a home aide, make sure you have a course of action and a routine in mind that’s advantageous. 

3. Agree on a Home Elderly Care Company

To avoid tension during treatment, interview a few home health care providers as a family. After hearing about credentials, experience, references, and cost, settle on a provider that the family unit is confident in. 

4. Set Realistic Expectations

If you’re working with a home care provider for the first time, it’s natural to have high hopes. That being said, it’s important to know and accept your loved one’s current health status. In some situations, a caregiver is simply improving their overall quality of life. While you may notice positive changes in your loved one’s disposition, home organization, and health management, maintain a realistic perspective and understand the restrictions as far as memory retention and the natural aging process. 


Lifetime Care has been the leading hospice and home elderly care provider throughout Monroe, Wayne, Livingston, Ontario, Yates, Seneca, Cayuga, and Schuyler counties since 1960. If you call the Finger Lakes region home and are looking for an aide to help an elderly loved one with daily activities, call (585) 214-1000 to discuss your needs. To find out more about this compassionate, service-focused organization and the top-notch credentials of each home aide, visit their website

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