Child custody rulings have the force of court orders, but they can be modified if either parent can demonstrate a material change of circumstances. Meeting the threshold required by the judge is often difficult, and even minor oversights can cause them to deny your request, no matter how fair it may seem to you. The following do’s and don’ts will increase the chances of your lawyer successfully modifying the order.

Do:

Follow current orders.

At your modification hearing, the judge will attempt to determine whether you have successfully fulfilled all your current obligations. No matter how contentious the situation with the other parent may be, make your child support payments and pick up your kid on time.

Hire a lawyer.

A lawyer will help determine whether the change in circumstances since the original ruling will satisfy the judge and identify your legal options. They’ll also speak on your behalf in court and argue that a modification of the custody order is warranted.

Don’t:

Act on emotions.

Tempers often flare in child custody disputes, especially when your relationship with your child is at stake. However, it’s important to avoid acting aggressively, like making threats to take the child away from the other parent. Before a modification hearing, it’s safe to assume that anything you say or do will be relayed to the judge.

Be late picking up your child.

If you are late picking up your child or miss a visitation period, the judge may decide that you are not committed to being a parent. Even if a change in your work schedule has made the existing visitation agreement difficult, arrange to spend as much time with your kid as possible.

If you’re involved in a custody dispute or seeking a modification, turn to the experienced family lawyers at the Knochel Law Office. Since 1987, they’ve provided compassionate legal advice and effective representation to families throughout California, Arizona, and Nevada dealing with a variety of sensitive issues. For more on their family law services, visit the website, and follow their Facebook for regular news and updates. To schedule a consultation at their office in Bullhead City, call (928) 444-1000 today.