If you’re starting the divorce or custody process, you know you’re facing many changes in your life. One many people overlook is in the way you should use social media. A divorce lawyer might recommend caution whenever you’re online because being careless or posting the wrong items may damage your case. 

Do:

Change your password.

If your former spouse or significant other knows or could guess your password, change it immediately. The person is about to become your opponent in a legal battle, so you don’t want he or she to have access to your private communication or the ability to post on your behalf.

Consider what you post.

Many types of posts which would be harmless under normal circumstances can damage your case. For instance, pictures of you at the bar, holding alcohol, or looking intoxicated can be used to paint an image of you as an irresponsible parent or provider, which can affect custody decisions. Think about how a post or picture might be used before you submit it.

Consider logging off.

Sometimes, the best way to prevent an opponent from twisting your words is not to speak. Consider taking a temporary break from social media, or at least scaling back your use to give your ex less to work with.  You can suspend your own account for a time until the worst blows over.  Your lawyer can help you determine if this is necessary in your case.

Don’t:

Post about your ex.

While venting can help you emotionally, it’s not a good idea during your divorce or custody proceeding. You may say something you’ll regret, which will make negotiations more difficult, or your ex-spouse might successfully accuse you of defamation. 

Upload anything unflattering.

Images and posts can be used to paint a picture of your lifestyle, which can diminish your standing with the court. To avoid this, treat your social media as a PR campaign, and post only images which present you in a positive light—for instance, participating in wholesome activities with your children.

Delete accounts or previous texts.

While you may want to go on hiatus or even freeze an account, don’t delete it entirely. Your divorce lawyer may need access to previously posted information to verify or disprove your ex’s claims.

For social media advice from a divorce lawyer, speak to O'Neill Law Firm in La Crosse, WI. For over 20 years, their experienced lawyers have helped the area’s residents with their legal issues and will do the same for you, whether you need divorce advice, bankruptcy help, or a criminal defense attorney. They are also active in the community and participate in several charitable and public service organizations. To learn more, contact them at (608) 519-3551 or online.