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While you certainly hope that something will not happen to you, it’s best to be prepared for the worst. All parents need to know that their child or children will be in good hands. Your estate planning attorney, Stuart R. Norman Jr. in Griswold, CT, explains what you need to know about choosing a guardian to name in your will.

Do’s

Ask for permission.

attorneyAsking someone to be the guardian for your children is a big request, and they deserve the opportunity to say no. Before naming anyone for your attorney, ask them for permission to do so, and explain what they could expect. Be transparent about how much life insurance you have, whether you’ll create a fund for your children’s education and what your wishes would be if they took in your children. Then give them plenty of time to make the decision and do not be offended if they say no.

Look for the right qualities.

You want to find someone who can care for your children in the way you wish and who would make the transition as easy as possible. Find someone who knows your children well and is familiar with your parenting values. Choose someone who has experience parenting and who you trust to provide your child with the love and care they deserve.

Don’ts

Forget a backup.

Choosing one guardian may seem enough of a challenge, but you won’t feel properly prepared unless you choose a backup guardian as well. This will ensure your children are taken care of if the primary guardian changes their mind or is no longer able to take in your children. Look for the same qualities in this individual, and ask them for permission as well, while clarifying that they are an alternate guardian.

Worry about offending people.

Many parents put off finding a guardian because they are worried about offending the family and friends who are not chosen. Don’t choose the wrong individual just because you’re worried about their feelings. Make the choice that is best for your children.

Everyone should have a will, but it’s particularly crucial for those with children. Stuart R. Norman Jr. has provided attorney services to the Jewett City area for over 40 years and can help you set up your will. This legal service is well versed in estate law and will provide a high level of service for your best possible peace of mind. Contact an attorney online or at (860) 376-0069 to schedule a consultation. It’s never too early to make sure your family will be taken care of.

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