As your parents age, you’ll likely take on family caregiver responsibilities or enlist the help of an assisted living team as needed. Their needs can be specific, and at times, it can be overwhelming, which is why there are essential tips to remember. These do’s and don’ts will guide you to get the care they need and avoid caregiver burnout.

Do:

Give them space.

You may be tempted to keep a constant eye on older parents, especially if they’re living with a medical condition, but it’s important to give them some space. They can become combative if they feel disrespected or treated like a child, and watching them constantly is overwhelming for you. Also, give them some breathing room when discussing assisted living options, so they have time to consider and don’t feel like it’s being forced on them.

Let them make decisions.

Respect your aging parents by letting them be part of the decisions. Whether it’s assisted living or home health care services, give them an equal place in the decision-making process. They’ll be more receptive to ideas, and you can make more progress with discussions.

Don’t:

Delay talking about assisted living.

Discussing assisted living can be difficult, but if your parents can’t care for themselves, you need to introduce the idea. It may take time, but you’ll gradually make progress. Delaying it will only keep them from getting the care they need and could eventually lead to negative results.

Handle everything yourself.

Trying to manage all your parents’ needs while living your own life can be exhausting. Many times, it leads to caregiver burnout, which is why you need to balance responsibilities with other family members and a professional caregiver, if necessary. It will ensure your well-being as well as your parents’.

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