When a loved one passes, you may have no idea what to do. Many people are unsure of the steps to begin funeral planning. They’re unsure if they should choose burial or cremation or who to call to begin this important process. Below, you’ll find a few do’s and don’ts to help you start the planning journey and give you some advice on what’s important.

Do:

Ask questions.

Don’t be afraid to ask questions when funeral planning. There is a lot to decide at this time, from burial or cremation to where to host the memorial, and you’re not doing this alone. Get the help of trusted loved ones and talk with funeral directors to use their experience for your benefit.

Choose an appropriate location.

Where did the person who passed away live? If they wanted to be buried or interred there, consider having their celebration of life close by. Or, if their friends and family lived far away, you may consider hosting the event in a more central location. 

Don’t:

Neglect to plan refreshments.

While funeral planning, people tend to think of things like getting special flowers and putting together photo collages. However, you should consider what food and drink to have for the pre- or post-funeral gathering. Choose options the person who passed would have loved to honor their memory.

Keep it somber.

Today, many people prefer to have a celebration of life instead of a funeral. Consider your loved one who has passed away and what they would want you to do. They may have appreciated a traditional religious ceremony or a more modern sendoff.

Forget to grieve.

Putting together a funeral can be a welcome distraction from feelings of sadness. However, take some time to acknowledge your feelings. Grief takes many forms, and by helping create a beautiful funeral, you are honoring a loved one and beginning to process their passing.

If you need funeral planning assistance, contact the experienced team at Brown Funeral Homes & Cremations in Martinsburg, WV. Their funeral directors are compassionate and knowledgeable and can offer plenty of advice on choosing caskets or urns and other aspects of the process. To discuss your plans and seek support during your time of need, call (304) 263-8896. Visit their website for information on their funeral planning resources to help you create a memorable and special celebration of life.