Understanding and dealing with the loss of a loved one can be particularly difficult for young children. It’s important that they have other loved ones close by who can help them understand death and guide them through the grieving process. Below, the funeral services staff at Porto Funeral Homes in New Haven County has shared a guide to helping your child during this difficult time.

Help Them Understand Death

Understanding death is a challenge for younger children who are experiencing a loss for the first time. Explain the passing in simple terms and use a gentle, supportive voice as you do so. How you choose to explain the death to them may depend on your religious beliefs, so say what feels right but take the time to let them process what you’re saying. Be prepared to sit with them for a while and comfort them or answer any questions they have.

Help Them Mourn

Depending on their relationship with the deceased, your older child may or may not want to attend the funeral service. Understand that it’s okay if they don’t go, and you should not force them to do so as it is a personal decision. You can find other ways to mourn with them. Encourage them to express their feelings and support them when they do want to talk. You can plan a day to honor the life of your loved one, such as volunteering at their favorite charity or doing an activity they loved.

No matter how old your child is, giving them a keepsake such as something that belonged to the deceased can help them remember the departed. Keepsake urns are nice for older children while a blanket or teddy bear is appropriate for younger kids.

The staff at Porto Funeral Homes understands that support during this time is important for both you and your child. That is why they are dedicated to providing comprehensive funeral services with compassionate care. See how they can help online and call the funeral home at (203) 467-3000 for East Haven or (203) 934-5000 to reach their West Haven location to plan how to honor the life of your loved one. You can also like the funeral service provider on Facebook.