Dating can be both incredibly exciting and terribly nerve-racking. The team at Hula’s Bar & Lei Stand, a restaurant in Honolulu, HI, have seen just as many painfully awkward first dates as they have enjoyable ones. To help you prepare for the perfect date, they’ve put together the guide below.

Local Restaurant’s Advice for the Perfect First Date

1. Choose the Location Thoughtfully

The location for your date will set the mood. You can incorporate an interactive, physical activity like mini golf or bowling to  help you bond with your partner. Or you may want to stick with the classic choice of going to a restaurant, which will provide a more intimate setting. Regardless, pick a casual location where you’ll both feel more comfortable to begin getting to know each other.

2. Be Yourself

The point of the first date is for you and your partner to get to know each other, which they can’t do if you don’t act like yourself. Remember that your date is likely just as nervous as you, so it’s okay to be a little awkward. Just respond to questions about yourself honestly in addition to inquiring about your date. 

3. Start With a Cocktail

You don’t need to get completely inebriated to have a good time, but kicking off the night with a cocktail will help calm your nerves. With fewer inhibitions and a bit of liquid courage, you’ll be able to act more natural and have more fun, giving your date a more authentic impression.

When you need a lively location to bring your date, look no further than Hula’s Bar & Lei Stand. A warm and inviting gathering place, this restaurant offers a variety of amenities, including live music, dancing, and an award-winning menu, all within the romantic backdrop of Waikiki Beach. View their full menu online, and call a team member today at (808) 923-0669 with any questions.