The death of a close friend or family member isn’t easy for anyone, but children may feel particularly confused and unsettled as they attempt to process grief. Fortunately, there are many ways you can help kids cope with loss. Here is a helpful guide on teaching young ones about death and what to expect during a funeral.

How to Help Children During a Funeral

Be Honest

As much as you may be tempted to sugarcoat the situation, it’s best to be open and transparent with kids about the death of a loved one. Use an appropriate amount of detail and explain the cycle of life. Try using a story from one of their favorite books or movies to make the concept relevant and relatable but not too overwhelming.

Allow Them to Express Their Feelings

Make yourself available to listen to your children’s thoughts and feelings, especially around a sensitive event like a funeral. Remember they are grappling with a sometimes confusing topic, so be patient and try not to take it personally if they say something hurtful or upsetting. You might also encourage them to write, draw, or paint to express complex emotions they aren’t ready to discuss yet. 

Watch for Unhealthy Behavior

Though some acting out is normal and expected, be wary if your kids seem to withdraw completely or engage act out in ways that jeopardize their safety. Meet with a family counselor if they develop long-term problems focusing and behaving in school.

When you need caring professionals to help your family after the loss of a loved one, contact Adzima Funeral Home. They provide obituaries, funeral planning, burials, cremations, and other services for the Stratford, CT community. Call them at (203) 375-2200 to speak with a hospitable staff member about getting started on funeral pre-planning arrangements. Visit them online to learn more about their many resources and services.