The death of a loved one can be traumatic. For many, visiting the grave or placing flowers next to the headstone can be a source of comfort and peace. In the immediate aftermath of the loss, it may seem only natural to visit a few times. But when is the best time to visit? Here’s what to keep in mind.

When to Visit Your Loved One’s Grave

Any Day

There is no “right” or “wrong” day to visit. Simply sitting before the headstone can be cathartic, and this is something you can do any time you need some peace. This may be immediately after their passing or several weeks after. Maybe you want to spend some quality alone time with your loved one or you want to bring flowers. Take advantage of the time there by clearing your schedule. This way, you can sit in peace, reflect, and remember the special moments you shared together.

Special Occasions

It’s not unusual to visit a grave on a special occasion, such as a birthday, an anniversary, or a holiday. You might bring a small token to place by the headstone for the occasion and to remember your loved one in person. You could even say a few words to them if you feel moved to do so. The “firsts” are always difficult, whether it’s a birthday or a holiday that meant a lot to you both. You may find solace in visiting the gravestone on that day and spending some time reflecting about their life. 

Weekday Mornings

You may encounter more people than you would like if you go to the cemetery on the weekend. But if you can visit on a weekday morning or afternoon, you might enjoy more privacy and time alone at your loved one’s grave. Although people may take time out of their lunch schedule to visit, it’s unlikely to feel too crowded.

The compassionate staff at Derrick Monument Company Inc will help you memorialize your loved one with a beautiful headstone, grave marker, monument, or gravestone. Based in Le Roy, NY, these caring professionals recognize the importance of a high-quality memorial that celebrates your loved one’s life. They will provide you with the support and guidance you need to make the right choices. Visit their website for details about their services or call (585) 768-8470.