As our parents get older, it’s important to broach the subject of death and what funeral arrangements they desire. While this is not an easy topic, it's critical to make sure all of their affairs are handled correctly when they pass away. To help deal with the idea of funeral planning and discussing death, here are a few ways to have this conversation with a parent.

How to Talk With a Parent Regarding Death

Beginning the Conversation

Easing into such a difficult topic in the best way you can is the ideal approach to use. There are a few ways to open up the discussion and find out what your aging parents want for both their funeral services and for their assets after they are gone. Something as simple as asking what their likes and dislikes are can give insight into their preferences.

Another simple opener can be to use an article or real-life story about someone else’s funeral planning experience. Use a friend or other family member as an example and ask them how they feel about what happened to them. This will segue into a conversation about their own end-of-life preparations and needs.

Once the conversation has started, ask a few questions that give clues to their opinions on heavier topics, such as whether or not they believe in assisted living facilities and life support for more serious conditions. Try to figure out what they worry about when they are gone and what they hold most dear. Finally, ask them with whom they trust their finances, belongings, and other areas of their estate.

If you have siblings, make them aware of the conversation and try to have everyone present. This also opens up a dialogue between everyone to see who is comfortable handling different areas.

Legal Follow-Up

Recording these initial conversations and taking notes are helpful ways to keep track of their wishes and beliefs. When it is time to have different aspects made legal, these early notations will come in handy. Recordings especially will resolve any confusion or conflict when it comes to fulfilling their wishes.

Speak with your parents’ doctors and lawyers to ensure their end-of-life care, funeral planning requests, and estate directions are made clear in legally binding documents. Make sure beneficiaries, executors, and powers of attorney are also laid out.

When you are ready to begin funeral planning, trust the dedicated, compassionate staff of Dennis George Funeral Home. Located in Cleves, OH, and serving the western Cincinnati region, this funeral home brings more than two decades of professional offerings to loved ones who have suffered a loss or those seeking to preplan their own funeral services. To learn more about their options, including burial and cremation services, call (513) 941-6700 or visit their website. You can also find them on Facebook.