If you have never planned a memorial service before, it’s natural to be concerned about putting one together. There are several ways to create a touching experience for the decedent’s friends and loved ones. Below is a brief guide to getting started on the planning process.

Steps to Start With

Make It Personal

Those who knew the deceased are most likely to appreciate and be comforted by the memorial service if it celebrates what they loved about the person they lost. Incorporate personal elements, such as poetry they wrote or loved, awards won, and charities that meant a lot to them. For instance, if they dedicated their lives to a particular cause, set up a donation in their honor. 

Add a Visual Element

A memorial service differs from a funeral in that there is no body or casket present. Instead, you can give attendees something visual to focus on by displaying pictures of the deceased and mementos that were significant to them.

Choose the Right People to Speak

Typically, the right person to deliver the eulogy is one who is willing and feels up to the task. Many family members or friends will be too overwhelmed with emotion to speak or may be uncomfortable for other reasons. Make sure you talk to the person or people you have in mind well in advance. Remind them that the service is a celebration of life and ask them to write something in that spirit.

Help From the Funeral Home 

With the help of our attentive, compassionate funeral directors, planning and carrying out a memorial service in our Chapel and Parlor will be accommodating for all your needs. You have the ability to customize your service and visitation to meet the needs of your family.  We will help you set up your pictures and personal mementos to make this a personal time for your loved one.

If you need help planning a funeral or memorial service, the locally owned Arndt Funeral Home in Rochester, NY, can help. For over 40 years, they have served the community with compassionate and comprehensive services for individuals of all faiths. To schedule an appointment to discuss your needs and plans, call (585) 225-6350 today. For more information on the matter and how they can assist, visit them online.