Parents want to protect their children from pain and heartache, but there may come a time when you must teach them how to cope with death. While every kid reacts and handles their emotions differently, you can be there to answer any questions they have and ease the stress of the grieving process. Here is a guide to help you when it’s time to have this conversation with your little one.

3 Tips to Help You Talk to Your Child About Loss

1. Use Clear Words

When it’s time to break the news, bring your child to a familiar environment and approach the topic in a caring way. Use clear and simple words when talking about the loss of a loved one. Children don’t have an extensive vocabulary yet, so avoid phrases like “passed on” or “went to sleep.”

2. Tell Them What to Expect

The death of a loved one often means that there will be changes in your family’s life. If this is going to affect your child, let them know what to expect. For example, they may notice people coming over with flowers or food to express their condolences. You should also discuss what will happen at the upcoming funeral and memorial services.

3. Help Them Remember

Don’t avoid bringing up the name of your loved one. Sharing memories can help ease your child through the grieving process and activate positive feelings. Encourage them to draw pictures or write down their favorite stories about the person who died.

If you have a loved one who has recently passed, Lanham-Schanhofer Funeral Home in Sparta, WI, is here to help you through the funeral planning and grieving process. Since 1858, the compassionate funeral home has offered a full range of funeral arrangement and cremation services to meet any budget. Call (608) 269-6666 today to speak with one of their staff members or visit their website for more information about their offerings.