Unfortunately, most people will experience the loss of a loved one at some point in their lifetime. When someone you know is grieving, it can be difficult to know what to do, particularly when that person is a colleague. Fossum Funeral Home, a funeral home in Onalaska, WI, shares a few tips to support a co-worker in their time of need. 

4 Ways to Support a Grieving Colleague 

1. Reach Out 

Even if you don’t know your colleague well, reach out to them and let them know you’re thinking of them. Invite them to join you for lunch or coffee outside the office. Be present without being pushy. They might decline initially but take you up on the offer at a later date; everyone’s grief is different, and your co-worker may or may not be ready to talk right away. Be ready to help when they need it. 

2. Don’t Ask Questions

It’s natural to want to ask how your co-worker is doing, but it might put them in an awkward or stressful position. Instead, avoid putting them in a difficult situation by letting them know you are there if they want to discuss their feelings. For instance, you can say, “I’m here if you need help with anything,” or “I’ll check in on you from time to time.” 

3. Be Flexible

In the weeks and months following a loss, your co-worker might not be on their A-game at work. Be understanding of their situation and the effects grief can have on their mental and physical health. They might be more forgetful or less energetic than usual; try to be patient and forgiving of mistakes. You can politely offer to help with projects or tasks as they get back into their routine. 

4. Make Simple Gestures

Small gestures can go a long way. Consider sending your co-worker flowers or a prepared meal. You can work alone or coordinate with other colleagues. One way to show support as an office is to send a floral arrangement to the funeral home. Even something as simple as a personalized sympathy card can let them know you’re supportive in their time of need. 

Simply knowing they have your support will help your colleague get through this challenging time. If you need funeral planning or burial services in Onalaska, turn to Fossum Funeral Home. Since opening in 1926, this local funeral home has provided caring support to families throughout the area. Call (608) 783-9777 to speak with a friendly representative, or visit their website to learn about their pre-planning services.