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Planning a funeral or memorial service of a family member is never easy but organizing one for children, especially babies, is particularly painful and traumatic. For anyone who may be going through this, Porto Funeral Homes wants you to know that in these difficult times, there are resources available. Since 1931, they’ve faithfully served Connecticut’s New Haven County, providing a wide range of funeral services. If this situation applies to you, or someone close to you, hopefully, you’ll find the following helpful.

How to Plan a Funeral for a Baby

Format

Although they’re often used interchangeably, there are a few key differences between a funeral and memorial service. The former takes place when the body is present and usually within 2 to 3 weeks of the death; the latter does not and can happen any time afterward. Furthermore, funerals are often held at the gravesite or in a place of worship, while memorials can be held elsewhere, such as in a garden or on private land.

Ceremony Options

funeralDuring the service, you can feature music, poetry, or special readings. The tone is up to you; some opt for more solemn pieces while others prefer something more inspirational. Hymns are also popular. Another option is a candle lighting ceremony. For those who have chosen cremation, scattering the ashes can also be included.

Regarding Stillbirth

If the child you’ve lost was stillborn, the hospital can help with arrangements. However, keep in mind you won’t have as many options as you would by going to a funeral home.

If you need more additional information about any of these services or you have questions, contact Porto Funeral Homes. You can reach them directly at (203) 467-3000 for East Haven or 203-934-5000 to reach their West Haven, CT location. You can also send them a message through their website

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