A will is an estate planning tool that outlines final wishes and plans for your legacy. Unfortunately, not everyone has a will in place, despite the advantages and protections provided by this document. If your parents don't have a will, you should talk to them about writing a one. Here, the Law Offices of Neil T. Nakamura & Associates in Honolulu, HI, share three tips to help you.

How to Talk to Your Parents About Estate Planning

1. Meet With Your Siblings First

If you have siblings, sit down with them to get every family member on the same page. Let them know you want to bring up the subject of estate planning with your parents, and encourage them to share their thoughts and feelings on the matter. They can provide valuable insights and perspectives you may have not have previously considered, and they may have helpful advice on how to best approach the topic with your parents

2. State Your Intentions

When it comes time to have the conversation with your parents, state your intentions and motives from the get-go. Let them know that you aren't asking them to draw up a will because you want to see what you're going to get or how they're going to divide up their assets. Remind them that a will is a precautionary measure to safeguard their interests.

3. Be Respectful

Death and end-of-life issues are never easy topics for conversation. But these matters are central to any talk of estate planning, so be respectful in how you talk to your parents about them. Be mindful of the language you use, and always aim to be as sensitive as possible. If your parents seem too uncomfortable or resistant at any point in the discussion, save it for another time.

With these tips, you can help your parents start on the path to effective estate planning. Let the Law Offices of Neil T. Nakamura & Associates guide you on that path. For more than four decades, this team of lawyers has assisted clients with estate, probate, family, and elder law issues. Call (808) 945-7645 to schedule a free consultation today, or visit the website to learn about their practice areas.