Following a death, mourners often come together to honor the life of their loved one and pay respects. When deciding how best to honor their life, the surviving family may be uncertain whether to hold a memorial service or funeral service. Although the terms are often used interchangeably, there is a key difference to keep in mind as you decide which event is appropriate for your situation.

What Differentiates a Funeral Service From a Memorial?

Regardless of how many people attend the gathering, a funeral typically occurs in the presence of the body of the deceased. Depending on the final wishes of the deceased or the family’s request, the casket will either remain open or closed during the funeral service. In either case, mourners are typically allowed to approach the casket to say their farewells. After the service, attendees may drive to the cemetery to view the interment.  

What Goes on at a Memorial Service?

If there isn’t a casket present at the gathering—like in the event of cremation for one example—the event is considered a memorial service. Mourners are often encouraged to light candles, sing songs, share stories, and participate in other activities to celebrate the memory of their late friend or relative. Because there is no casket on display, there are fewer restrictions on where you can hold the gathering. 

If you have recently experienced the death of a loved one, the caring, sympathetic professionals at Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT, will help create a touching sendoff they would appreciate. The staff will also provide advice to emotionally prepare you for the gathering. To discuss planning a memorial tribute or funeral service in Fairfield County, call (203) 375-2200 to speak with a friendly associate. Visit the funeral home online for additional resources, and follow them on Facebook for announcements.