Discussing divorce with your children can be an intimidating and difficult process, even when you’re certain that ending the marriage is the best option. Though the news may upset them, how you approach the conversation can have a dramatic impact on their feelings of security and emotional well-being. The Law Office of Hawley Holman in Texarkana, TX, has over 30 years of experience guiding clients through these challenging times. The seasoned attorney shares some tips for discussing the decision with your kids.

How to Talk About Divorce With Your Kids

1. Leave Plenty of Time

Many parents are tempted to push through this uncomfortable situation to get the conversation over with as quickly as possible. However, this approach may leave your children feeling confused and worried. Set aside a few hours for the discussion and have it in a place where your kids will feel comfortable expressing themselves.

2. Do It Together

No matter how contentious the divorce may be and what negotiations are occurring between the attorneys, it’s important to present a united front to your children. Be prepared to offer an honest, age-appropriate explanation for the decision, and know where they will live and what the next steps will be. The more of their questions you can answer, the more secure and confident your children will feel.

3. Tell Them You Love Them

Many children tend to blame themselves for their parents’ divorce, so explain that your feelings for them have not changed. Tell the kids that both of you still love them, and your decision to separate has nothing to do with them.

If you’re going through a divorce or are involved in a custody dispute, the attorneys at the Law Office of Hawley Holman offer experience and integrity to effectively guide you through the process. Their highly personalized services and commitment to professional ethics has earned this law firm the distinction of being named as a Texas Super Lawyer by Texas Monthly magazine. To speak with an attorney and schedule a free consultation, visit their website or call (903) 792-4513 today.