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Going through the death of a loved one is a trying process. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to go through it alone, and here at Abriola Parkview Funeral Home in Trumbull, CT, we understand how difficult it can be to put the pieces back together when we lose those closest to us. It’s with that in mind that we’ve prepared these grief counseling tips to help you handle the deceased’s belongings, a difficult process for many people that can bring up many painful memories. We hope that by following these steps, you’ll find it easier to reach a sense of peace.

3 Grief Counseling Tips for a Lost Loved One’s Possessions

1. Consult Their Will

If the person you lost left a will, it may detail what to do with their money, real estate, and the belongings that were most important to them. Abide by your loved one’s will, even if you don’t agree with how they may have decided to divvy up their possessions.

2. Organize Into Groups

grief counselingIt can be overwhelming to deal with every single one of your loved one’s belongings. Organize the possessions into groups as you go, deciding which items you want to keep, give away, and sell or dispose of. Consider how practical it would be to keep these items. Think about whether you have enough space and how it will make you feel to see these items on a daily basis. Finally, place them in clearly labeled boxes for transport, whether it’s to your home or the trash.  

3. Give Things Away

Any grief counseling specialist will tell you it can be hard to let go of a lost loved one’s possession. However, choosing which items you’re comfortable giving away (whether it’s to a family member, a friend, charity, or just throwing it away) is an essential part of moving forward with your life. Remember, even if you let these items go, you’ll always have the memories of time spent together.

Sorting through your loved one’s belongings is an emotional process, but at Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, we’re here to help. If you need grief counseling, funeral services, or information about cremation, our family-run funeral home has helped the people of Fairfield County since opening in 1906, and we’re prepared to support you through even the most difficult of times. Please visit our website for helpful grief resources, or call (203) 373-1013 to speak with a representative.

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