The end of a marriage is a challenging time, so you want to make sure you navigate this experience with as much care and planning as possible. Having the right safeguards in place will ensure that your family weathers the stresses of divorce and that all the legal aspects of the marriage are effectively resolved. To help you do this, the family law attorneys at Payne Law Office in Lincoln, NE, share some do’s and don'ts of divorce.

Do:

Hire a divorce lawyer.

First and foremost, you want to have skilled legal representation guiding you throughout the divorce process. A divorce and family law attorney will help you identify your goals and build a strong and compelling case. They will handle the completion and submission of the legal paperwork, and they will negotiate with the opposing counsel to come to mutually agreeable solutions on everything from property division to child custody and support.

Budget yourself.

Transitioning to life as a single person is going to require some adjustment to your finances. In most situations, you will now be responsible for your own living expenses without a partner to split costs with. You'll also have to secure your attorney's services, pay some court-related fees, and perhaps miss work to make appointments with your lawyer or the courts. Mindfully plan your budget to reflect the new responsibilities in your life.

Don't:

Be hard on yourself.

It's no secret that divorce can be a major stressor. To endure the challenges that may lie ahead, be cautious about how you talk to yourself about the divorce. Don't be hard on yourself, take time to do things just for you, and incorporate a healthy balance into your life. An unsuccessful marriage is no reflection on you as a person or on your contributions to the world.

Defy court orders.

As part of the divorce process, the courts will likely issue temporary orders for things like child custody, support, and property division. These orders may be amended in the final ruling, depending on the circumstances of your divorce. But whether the orders are temporary or permanent, always follow them to the letter. If you don't honor the orders courts hand down, you can be fined or even jailed; these legal guidelines are not optional and defying them could have a negative impact on your case, your family, your wallet, and perhaps your freedom.

Let Payne Law Office provide you with the legal advice and support you need and deserve. They are committed to offering the highest levels of client care and service. Call (402) 477-7246 or message the office on Twitter to schedule an appointment with a family law attorney today.