After losing a loved one, it is common to go through a period of mourning. Grief is a normal and healthy process, but it isn’t easy to weather the storm. If you have a friend who is hurting after a funeral, you can provide comfort in a few simple ways.

How to Comfort Someone After a Funeral

1. Tell Stories

Some people are nervous about bringing up the name of the deceased for fear of upsetting those who are grieving. However, this action can actually bring great comfort. When it feels appropriate, open up and share your own stories about the lost loved one. At first, your friend may simply listen or cry. But as you continue to share funny or happy moments, they will likely open up as well. This kind of communication helps them remember the person in the best light, and these joyous memories will bring comfort to their hurting hearts.

2. Take Them Out

A grieving friend will likely want to stay home on the weekends. While time to themselves can be healing, too much isolation will do the opposite. Kindly and gently suggest an activity you both enjoy that will get them out of the house. This could include an exercise class, having lunch at your favorite restaurant, or window shopping. After the funeral is over, it is good to stay social and active. Be the friend who encourages this to provide healing and comfort.

3. Offer Help

Things that were once important often get put on the back burner for those in mourning. If you have a friend who is struggling to keep up with chores or handle bills, step in and offer your assistance. You can pick up the groceries for the week or help them clean up. If they refuse, don’t push: Instead, once in a while, gently remind them they can turn to you. 

If you or someone you know is in need of funeral or memorial services, turn to Johnson Funeral Home & Monuments. Located in Monroeville, AL, they will handle all the details and support you in your time of need. They offer cremation, funeral pre-planning, and monument creation services. Their goal is to relieve you of any burden so you can process your grief. For more information, visit their website or call (251) 575-3222 today.