Child custody is one of the most controversial issues to work out in a divorce. If you can’t agree on the terms, a family law court may order an evaluation to determine the kids’ best interests. The legal team at Hildebrand Law Office PC prepares clients throughout northwestern Georgia to help them avoid making mistakes that could be detrimental to their case. Here, they offer some helpful do’s and dont’s to ensure the best possible outcome. 

Do:

Be Flexible

Child custody arrangements don’t always turn out the way both parties desire. It’s essential that you’re willing to compromise and prioritize what’s best for your kids over your wishes. Showing that you can be flexible will often work to your advantage.

Embrace Your Flaws

There’s no such thing as a perfect parent, and trying to portray yourself as one will only make the evaluator question your intentions. It’s better to embrace your flaws, allowing them to see that you’re honest and human. The key is to demonstrate your strengths along with your weaknesses.

Show a Willingness to Foster a Relationship With the Other Parent.

When deciding on the best outcome, family law judges consider how willing each individual is to nurture a relationship between their child and the other parent. It can work in your favor if the evaluator hears you emphasize the importance of both parents having time with the child.

Don’t:

Coach Your Children for the Evaluation.

Steer clear of the temptation to coach your child on what to say during the evaluation. Evaluators have a great deal of experience interviewing families and will likely pick up on anything that doesn’t seem natural. Trying to influence how your kid acts will only cause suspicion.

Talk Negatively About the Other Parent.

Badmouthing the other parent will only have negative consequences for your child, which the evaluator won’t appreciate. When asked questions about your ex-spouse, try to keep it as positive as possible and refrain from voicing any bad feelings you have toward them.

Use the Evaluator As a Counselor.

The evaluator is only there to do a job and provide the court with an objective point of view. Trying to befriend them or use them as an ear to vent to won’t increase the likelihood they will side with you. To the contrary, doing so will cast you in an unfavorable light.

How you approach your child custody evaluation can make all the difference in the outcome of your case. For counsel from an experienced lawyer, turn to the team at Hildebrand Law Office PC. Backed by 17 years of experience in this practice area, they offer their clients invaluable tips to show the evaluator why your kids will thrive best in your care. Contact them at (706) 638-6009 to schedule a consultation, or visit their website for additional information on the topic.