Child custody disputes can be intense, emotional experiences for all parties involved. Much of the stress in these circumstances stems from uncertainty; when you hand your family's fate over to judges to decide, your control over the situation is severely limited. But you have more power than you might initially think, and there are some things you should do—and not do—to make the custody process easier. 

Do:

Be willing to compromise and work with your ex.

Your ex might be the last person in the world you want to speak with, but your cooperation is going to be essential to getting the outcome you want in your custody case. Show that you are open to hearing your ex's ideas and points of view. That doesn't mean you have to agree with all of them, but just hearing them, considering them, and reaching compromises will only help you look better in the eyes of the court.

Know your rights as a parent.

No matter where you're at in your custody battle, make sure you are empowered with all of the information you need to make solid decisions for your case and family. The best way to do this is to work closely with your lawyer, ask questions, and learn about custody issues on the internet, in books, and with people who have been through them.

Don't:

Try to represent yourself.

It's rarely advisable to represent yourself in court, but it's especially risky in a custody dispute. You should be an expert in family law to even broach the subject in court. When you represent yourself, you're taking unnecessary chances with the future of your family. Even overlooking small details, like filing the right forms by the appointed deadlines, could throw your entire case off track.

Avoid an in-home evaluation.

You're a good parent, so be prepared to prove it. In some cases, the courts will issue an in-home evaluation to determine the fitness of your household. You should welcome this evaluation as a chance to show that you have a loving, stable home to provide for your children. Your cooperation during a home visit can strengthen your overall case and demonstrate the extent of your love and devotion to your kids.

If you are involved in a custody battle, don't go it alone. Trust The Law Offices of Charley Johnson to look out for you. Based in Centerville, TX, attorney Johnson serves clients throughout Leon County in all areas of probate, criminal, estate, and family law. Call (903) 536-2185 today to schedule a consultation, or visit him online to learn more about his practice areas.