Following the loss of a loved one, family and friends are tasked with several difficult responsibilities, from making the funeral arrangements to writing the obituary. This latter task can seem particularly daunting, as there’s often a lot of information to cover in a short amount of space. If you aren’t sure what to include, use the guide below to get started.

Important Details to Include in Your Loved One’s Obituary

1. Name, Birthday, & Other Biographical Information

Obituaries are part of the public record, and, as such, they should include the deceased’s biographical information. Note their full name, including their maiden name or nicknames, if applicable. You’ll also want to include their dates and locations of birth and death.

2. Education, Employment, & Military Service

Sharing your loved one’s education, employment, or military service history may seem unnecessary, but it was likely an important part of their identity. Additionally, it may help old classmates and colleagues find the obituary and inquire about the funeral arrangement details if they want to attend.

3. Memberships & Hobbies

Our lives are more than just our jobs. Your loved one was likely a member of one or more organizations or had hobbies they were passionate about. Include the names of these organizations and any role they held there.

4. Names of Surviving Relatives

When writing an obituary, include the names of any close surviving relatives, such as their spouse, children, grandchildren, and siblings. If other close relatives have already passed, you may want to include their names as well.

5. Funeral Arrangements

The funeral arrangements are another important component of an obituary. If the funeral, memorial, or burial service will be public, include the date, time, and location. If any portion will be private, note that as well.

6. “In Lieu of Flowers”

Grieving family members are often inundated with sympathy flowers from well-meaning co-workers and friends. Some families prefer financial assistance, while others would like people to make donations to a charity instead. You can include a statement that says, “In lieu of flowers, contributions to the family are suggested” or “In lieu of flowers, please consider a charitable donation in their name.”

Making funeral arrangements following the passing of a loved one is difficult, and you shouldn’t have to handle it alone. The funeral directors at Holman-Howe Funeral Homes in Seymour, MO, will assist you with every aspect of the planning process, from writing and submitting the obituary to choosing between a traditional funeral and a memorial service. With help from this compassionate team, you can ensure the arrangements you make honor and celebrate your loved one’s life. Visit their website to learn more, or call (417) 935-2244 to speak with one of their funeral directors.