One of the most difficult things to explain to a child is what happens to a loved one after they pass away. Funeral planning, cremation services, and burials may all feel overwhelming and confusing to a little one. It’s important to prepare yourself properly for an important conversation. Choosing the right words and ideas to convey can provide a lot of comfort during an uncertain time.

3 Tips to Help Children Understand Cremation Services

1. Choose the Right Time

It’s important to decide on the best time to have this conversation. Don’t wait until the day of service or the first time a child sees the cremation urn to explain the process. Schedule your talk when you know you’ll have the energy and time to make sure you can resolve any questions or concerns. Make sure that your child will have enough time to absorb the new information, as well.  

2. Avoid Alarming Language

The idea of cremation services may be perfectly logical to the adult brain, but too many details about the process may worry a child. Consider using metaphors instead of technical descriptors. Avoid using language that may be frightening or invoke alarming imagery.

3. Allow Them to Ask Questions

Regardless of how and when you decide to talk to your little one, be sure to allow them to ask questions. Often, adults will think that information has been fully absorbed, leaving kids to struggle to understand on their own. Provide support and a listening ear. Remind your child that if they think of any questions later, they can come to you at any time.

 

Many people choose cremation services instead of a traditional burial after a loved one has died. If you find yourself in the position of explaining the process to a child, the above tips will help make it easier on both of you. Oak Grove Cemetery in La Crosse, WI, offers both in-ground & above-ground options for burial of your loved ones cremated remains and has an intimate chapel available for the memorial service. Oak Grove Cemetery also carries a line of cremation urns for your convenience.  The kind and compassionate support of the Oak Grove Cemetery staff helps to make difficult decisions as easy as possible. To learn more, visit them online or call (608) 782-6956.