Getting engaged is one of the most romantic moments of a courtship, and it is certainly cause to celebrate. Before any serious wedding planning take place, though, it is wise for couples to make sure they are on the same page regarding a few key issues. One of the most important topics to address prior to tying the knot is finances, including any expectations in case the marriage ends; however, since no one says “I do” with the intention of filing for divorce someday, discussing plans to draft a prenuptial agreement can be challenging.

Pick the Right Time & Place

Do not mention prenuptial agreements when you are both running out the door on the way to work. Talking about such an important topic calls for your undivided attention, so plan to have the conversation when neither one of you has any other pressing engagements. As far as location goes, a place offering peace, quiet, and privacy is best. If the conversation begins steering toward the topic when you’re out somewhere in public, wait until you get home to pursue it in more detail.

Prepare for a Mutual Dialogue

Regardless of how strong your argument for signing a prenuptial agreement may be, it is essential to listen to your future spouse’s thoughts on the matter. Begin with the intention of a mutually engaging conversation. After stating the benefits of drafting this legal document, be prepared to go over each one—and any potential drawbacks—in detail.

If you want to draft a comprehensive prenuptial agreement to protect you and your future spouse, turn to Everett Cuskaden & Associates ALC. Based in Honolulu, this family-run law firm has proudly served clients throughout Hawaii for more than 35 years. You can learn more about the quality legal counsel they provide by visiting their website or following them on YouTube. To schedule an initial consultation with a family law attorney, call (808) 545-1331.