Everyone copes with the loss of a loved one differently; but, for most, grieving is a lengthy process. It may take months or years to achieve closure following the death of a family member or friend, but the healing process begins during the funeral services. Final arrangements provide surviving relatives with the chance to honor the deceased’s memory and say goodbye. This is why many families look for ways to add meaningful touches to their loved one’s service.

3 Ways to Make Funeral Services More Personalized & Meaningful

1. Memory Stones

Setting up a memory stone station is the perfect way to encourage funeral attendees to reminisce about happier times while providing the deceased’s immediate family with a beautiful relic from the service. All you need are a few permanent markers and some smooth, flat stones. Create a sign that instructs guests to write one of their favorite memories on a stone. The family can then display the rocks in their home or leave them somewhere that was meaningful to the deceased.

2. Sweet Treats

If your loved one had a sweet tooth, stock up on his or her favorite candy or dessert to give out as favors at the funeral services. This is an easy way to make guests smile and reflect on all the good times they had with the deceased. You can even personalize the treats by taping a small note to each treat.

3. Tree Seedlings

Giving guests tree seedlings is a beautiful way to honor the deceased. Planting the seeds is a great way to begin the healing process and create a meaningful spot where they can remember their loved one. Encourage them to plant the tree in a quiet place for reflection that they can visit often.

Losing a close friend or relative and making funeral arrangements while grieving can be emotionally daunting. When you work with a funeral director who can help you add creative and meaningful touches to the service, the planning process is simplified. For over 100 years, the compassionate team at Whitley’s Funeral Home in Kannapolis, NC, has helped families plan personalized funeral services. To learn more about the ways they can help your relatives after losing a loved one, visit their website or call (704) 933-2222.