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How to Talk to Your Children About Divorce December 5, 2017

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How to Talk to Your Children About Divorce, Indianola, Iowa

Divorce is a difficult and often traumatic experience, especially for young children who may not fully understand the changes coming over their lives. While it’s normal for children to feel apprehension and fear when the family they’ve known is coming apart, how you discuss the topic can make them more comfortable and help them adapt. Ellis Law Offices, P.C., divorce attorneys in Indianola, IA, urges their clients to take an honest, age-appropriate approach to these crucial conversations and be mindful of their children’s needs.

The most important thing to remember is to avoid casting blame on the other parent, regardless of whether or not they’re present during the conversation. Using the conversation with your children as a forum to vent your frustrations and anger will make them feel as though they have to choose sides, creating further divisions within your family when your children need as much security as possible.

divorce attorneysYounger children often have a tendency to blame themselves for the divorce, so it’s especially important to stress that the dissolution has nothing to do with them, and that you must separate for the emotional well-being of everyone involved. Make sure they understand that both of you still love them, and try to stress that now they will have two happy homes.

No matter their age, expect your children to have questions about the divorce, so be prepared with answers. They will want to know why you’re separating, but also what the future holds for them, so it’s best to have a plan before talking to your children about the divorce.

The divorce attorneys at Ellis Law Offices, P.C. have almost 14 years’ experience helping families throughout the area navigate one of the most difficult experiences of their lives. If you’re planning to dissolve your marriage, you can rely on their team to provide the legal guidance you need. To schedule a consultation with an experienced divorce attorney, visit their website or call (515) 962-9080, and follow their Facebook for regular news and updates.

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