Divorce mediation is a process that allows couples to stay out of the courtroom and negotiate the terms of the dissolution themselves. During mediation, both sides will sit down with their attorneys and a neutral third party to reach agreements on legal issues such as child custody and visitation, child support, alimony, and the division of assets. This guide outlines what you should know before undertaking this approach.

When Is Divorce Mediation Most Successful?

Divorce mediation can be a suitable alternative to litigation for those who are willing and able to go their separate ways amicably. Although this option is open to every couple, some may be better candidates for it than others. Mediation is more likely to be successful when the decision to divorce is mutual, and neither party has any desire to reconcile. Each side should be willing to remain on good terms and understand how the divorce affects their financial situation. Most importantly, there should be no blame placed on one spouse for the end of marriage.

Mediation also works well if there are no major disagreements about the issues at hand, including those related to child-rearing. There should be no physical or substance abuse problems in the relationship, and both parties must agree the other is a fit parent.

Why Should You Consider Divorce Mediation?

When successful, divorce mediation can save couples a great deal of time and money. The process is designed to make sure the outcome is fair to both parties, which isn’t always the case in court. Divorce mediation lets couples make decisions about their futures, rather than allow judges to issue a decree. Since there is no public court process, the details of what happens in mediation will also remain confidential. 

Before deciding if divorce mediation is the right approach to take, consult an experienced divorce lawyer. The Law Office of Gregory G. St. John, LLC of Waterbury, CT, will assess your situation to determine whether mediation is in your best interest. Clients can count on receiving effective representation and expert guidance on how to handle sensitive family law issues. Call (203) 759-0240 to schedule an appointment, and visit the firm’s website to learn more.