When someone you know loses a loved one, overcoming their grief presents many obstacles. Although it may be difficult to find words of comfort or know what to say, it’s important to support them in their time of need. If someone seems to be struggling to return to their normal routine after the funeral, there are a few ways you can be there for them.

How to Support Someone Who Is Grieving After a Funeral

Listen to Them

The most important thing you can do for a person who has experienced a loss is to let them know you’re there to listen. Allow them to talk about and sort through their feelings. Remember that everyone mourns in their own way, so advising how they should and should not be reacting could make them feel worse. Avoid unhelpful phrases that may devalue the loss, such as, “They’re in a better place.” Instead, give simple condolences from the heart.

Offer Assistance

It can be tough for the lamenting to go about everyday tasks such as cooking, cleaning, and running errands, so offering to help out is both a kind and useful gesture. They may not give a direct request when asked, “What can I do to help?” This could be out of guilt, feeling like a burden, or just not being in the mood to reach out. Ask about specific needs and responsibilities that require attention. Make sure bills are being paid, housework is getting done, and kids or pets are being taken care of. Even heating up microwave meals or ordering pizza for dinner will be appreciated.

Stay in Touch

The last thing you should do is lose touch with the bereaved. The grieving process can be long, painful, and isolating, so being there for someone who has experienced a loss lets them know they’re not alone. Send good morning messages to let the person know you’re thinking of them and drop by regularly to help out and visit. You can never time someone’s grief, but keeping in contact shows you’ll be there for them in the long run.

The passing of a family member or friend can take a toll on anyone’s emotional well-being. The caring funeral directors at Holman-Howe Funeral Homes of Seymour, MO, know this is a difficult time for you and your loved ones, so they’re committed to assisting with preparations for the funeral or memorial services. They can help you through the process with grief counseling, interactive aftercare, and other healing resources. If you need a funeral home that will celebrate the life of your loved one while supporting you along the way, call (417) 924-3233 or visit them online.