After going through a divorce, the upcoming holiday season may understandably feel overwhelming. It’s common to be apprehensive about planning your usual holiday soirée and to worry about when to unwrap presents with your children. However, with a little preparation, you can make the most of this upcoming holiday season. To help you manage the festivities ahead, the caring family law team at Coyne, Cundiff & Hillemann, P.C., in Lake St. Louis, MO, have a few key pieces of advice.

Family Law Tips on Post-Divorce Holidays

1. Don’t Sit at Home Alone

You may feel tempted to stay home alone and avoid the chaos altogether. However, regardless of your familial situation, during the holidays, you deserve to spend time with your loved ones. Don’t be afraid to reach out to family, friends, and coworkers. Other divorcees may particularly welcome a supportive hand. If you’re feeling emotionally down, you may also benefit from finding a support group or volunteering with a local organization.

2. Share the Love

If you have children, you may want them to spend as much time with you this season as possible. However, in the spirit of the holidays, remember to spread the love. Well before the big day, communicate with your ex and devise a plan to ensure both of you get to spend valuable time with your kids. Try to look past potential lingering conflicts and help everyone feel joyful and loved this season.

3. Create New Traditions

It may be painful to enact your family’s holiday traditions. While you may want to keep some of them for the sake of the children, it’s also the perfect time to create new customs and memories as a way of moving forward. Brainstorm a new fun after-dinner craft, or attend a holiday play together. With a little effort, this celebration and every one thereafter will be extra special. 

The caring team at Coyne, Cundiff & Hillemann, P.C., will help you through the challenges of divorce and other family law issues, from child custody to adoption. Backed by over 75 years of combined experience, they can guide and represent you in a range of legal matters. To learn more about their expertise in this practice area, visit their website. Schedule your complimentary consultation today by calling (636) 561-5599.