If you and your spouse have made the difficult decision to part ways, you may need to put some safeguards in place before filing divorce papers. Planning for the future ensures you will be prepared for any possible outcome of the proceedings. Hiring a divorce lawyer is an important first step. The following guide outlines other tasks you should complete before filing.

What Should You Do Before Filing for Divorce?

1. Access All Financial Documents

Finances are often at the center of divorce proceedings, so you should gather as much information as possible about your financial life. Obtain copies of bank statements, tax returns, property deeds or mortgage paperwork, and trust documents. Collecting these documents ensures your divorce lawyer will have the necessary materials to negotiate a fair settlement. 

2. Make Provisions for Yourself

Many couples share bank accounts, which means one spouse might have little money in their name. If this describes your situation, open a sole bank account. Never transfer funds from a jointly held account to put into your new account. Instead, start depositing new money, such as paychecks, into this account. This step is simply a means of looking out for yourself while the details of the divorce get worked out.

3. Start Journaling

Many people write in a diary to help them understand and process their feelings, especially during a stressful time. Keeping a journal can be cathartic, but it also serves a couple of important purposes during a divorce. If you anticipate issues such as child custody, recording daily activities shows a strong relationship with your kids, as well as any lack of participation on the part of your spouse. 

Call The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot at (860) 482-9004 to arrange an appointment with a family law and divorce lawyer. Be sure to follow her on Facebook and Google+ for legal tips and advice. A divorce is a major transition for you and your family; follow the above steps to make certain you are protected at every step.