Visitations and funeral services happen every day, but, when the passing doesn't involve someone in your family or a close friend, it can be confusing as to how you should behave or if you should even attend in the first place. As times change, so do the etiquette rules revolving grief and celebration of life, so use the following guide to ensure you don't unintentionally offend the family of the deceased.

Visitation & Funeral Service Etiquette

Attendance

Many individuals are unsure if they should attend the service of someone they didn't have a strong relationship with, such as an acquaintance or a family member of a friend. As long as the gathering isn't a private event, you should consider attending to show your respects to the person that's passed as well as their family. While visitations are usually always open to the public, be sure to check the obituary to verify if the funeral service is for family only, just to ensure you're not intruding.

Clothing

The clothing etiquette of funeral services and visitations has changed drastically. In the past, visitations or memorial services were always less formal than funeral services, but, now, they all tend to follow the same basic rules. You should wear business casual attire clothing, such as a blouse or sweater and slacks; you can also wear a variety of colors and not just black, but try to stick to muted colors and tones, such as gray or navy.

Flowers

Another concern for many individuals is whether or not they should send flowers. Even if you're not attending one of the services, it's customary to send flowers to the funeral home as a sign of respect. You should address the accompanying card to the family or name of the deceased to ensure they end up at the right event. If you choose not to send flowers, opt for a greeting card or donation to a charity of their choice following the funeral service.

The loss of a loved one is a traumatic experience, but the professionals at Fossum Funeral Home can help relieve some of the burdens. Since 1926, the funeral home has approached the planning process with compassion and care, and their full-service offering ensures every aspect of the arrangements is taken care of for you during your time of grief. Learn more about their funeral services and pricing options, in Onalaska and La Crosse, WI, by contacting the team online or calling (608) 783-9777.