Julia McCurley’s professional matchmaking service, Something More, has helped hundreds of executive singles find their perfect match. With years of experience, the team at Something More has perfected their skills and understands what makes a healthy relationship.

Many people have difficulty finding love because they have never had a good relationship before. They convince themselves that all relationships feel like an uphill battle filled with hard work, but that’s actually often the sign of a relationship that isn’t meant to be. 

Julia sees this pattern daily when she meets with new clients to discuss their dating history. Oftentimes, people convince themselves that a relationship is thriving because they desperately want to be happily coupled.

If you’re currently dating someone and aren’t sure if what you’re experiencing is normal or a sign that things aren’t working out, ask yourself these questions:

• Do you find yourself constantly wondering where you stand with your significant other?
• Does your relationship feel extremely different day to day?
• Do you often find yourself trying to guess or figure out what your significant other is thinking or feeling?
• Are you constantly apologizing for things that are an innate part of your personality?
• Do you get nervous that the relationship will fall apart every time you have an argument or a fight?
• Do you consistently argue over things that you will probably never see eye-to-eye on?
• Is your relationship one of the top three stresses in your life?
• Do you frequently wonder if your significant other is being honest with you?
• When you are around your significant, other do you feel like you have to suppress certain parts of your personality?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, there’s a pretty strong likelihood that you’re working much harder than you have to. A good relationship requires commitment, compromise, and communication, but it shouldn’t feel like you’re trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.

If your relationship feels like an uphill battle filled with constant work, grueling arguments, and stress, maybe it’s time for Something More. If you’re interested in finding someone who makes being in a relationship feel easy and natural, call a matchmaker from Something More at (512) 810-8803 and meet singles who you're actually compatible with.