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Essential Do's & Don'ts for Open Relationships July 20, 2017

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Essential Do's & Don'ts for Open Relationships, Honolulu, Hawaii



Open or polyamorous relationships involve intimacy with more than one partner. While they can be rewarding for some people, it’s not difficult to imagine possible complications arising. That’s why the experts at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health, offering sex therapy services in Honolulu, HI, and online counseling to remote clients, recommend keeping certain essential tips in mind if you’re planning on this type of relationship agreement.

What Are the Do’s & Don’ts of an Open Relationship?

Do Understand That People Have Different Needs

Too often in open or polyamorous relationships, a person will get upset if they feel like one or more of their partner’s other partners are receiving more attention or having their needs more fully met. However, it’s important to realize everyone’s needs are different, so it makes sense that another partner may have theirs met differently.

Don’t Use an Open Agreement or Polyamory to Fix a Broken Relationship

An open relationship or polyamory is not an effective way of addressing dissatisfaction in a relationship. If there are underlying issues that need to be addressed, intimacy with multiple partners will only serve as a temporary distraction. Consider sex therapy or similar counseling instead.

Do Communicate 

Communication is essential in any sexual or romantic relationship. When multiple partners are involved, it’s even more important. If you have a problem, don’t expect a partner to read your mind. Talk about it in a positive, constructive way instead of waiting for them to figure out there’s an issue.

Don’t Assume

Make time to have open discussions about expectations, needs, and wants. If you are not on the same page, it may become problematic quick.

To learn more about how to have a non-traditional relationship, get in touch with the experts at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health in Honolulu. They’ll work with you and anyone else involved to make navigating these sometimes-tricky relationships easier. Contact them online for more information, or call (808) 225-2780.