When the phrase “I’m sorry for your loss,” seems lacking, finding the right thing to say and do at a funeral service can seem impossible. Your friend, neighbor, or family member has recently suffered a tragic loss, and, unfortunately, there’s little you can do to make it better. Herman-Taylor Funeral Home & Cremation Center has been a part of the Wisconsin Rapids community since 1953. Helping people through their grief is what they do, and they have a few tips for people who want to help others.

3 Tips for Providing Support Before & After a Funeral Service

1. Keep Communication Available

While no one can fill the deep sense of loss your loved one feels, the void can seem a little less lonely if you talk about what’s happening. Make the effort to call or write a note soon after the death. It may be painful, and you might not know what to say, but letting the mourner know you’re there for them will offer some comfort.

2. Be a Good Listener

If the mourner takes you up on your offer to talk, your main job is to listen. Give them the chance to express their feelings about the deceased without reservation. If they’re angry, let them be angry. If they cry, let them cry, and don’t be ashamed if you cry with them. Tears show emotion you can’t put into words.

3. Offer Tangible Help

In addition to being present, you can help the bereaved by doing tangible tasks. The loss of a loved one leaves a huge gap in life. Making funeral arrangements can be difficult, and you can help by offering support in other areas of their life. Whether it’s picking up the kids or making dinner, be available to shoulder some of the burden.

Losing a loved one is one of the most difficult parts of life, and grief is a complicated process. The best you can do is to spend time with the mourner and offer genuine support. If you have questions about planning a funeral service in Wisconsin, call Herman-Taylor Funeral Home & Cremation Center at (715) 423-5460 today. You can also learn more about the funeral home’s values on their website.