Divorce is a complicated process that often leaves people feeling stressed and uncertain. Working with a divorce law expert can help you navigate the steps to ending your marriage and moving forward as a family if children are involved. Luke A. Weiland, Attorney at Law, serves clients in the Wisconsin Rapids, WI, area, offering legal guidance to help people understand their options after a divorce. Below, he offers his tips for beginning the dissolution process.

Talk to the Kids

Sit down with your spouse and tell the kids together. Be calm and civil, and break the news to your children gently but honestly, using age-appropriate language. Avoid going into the details and assure your kids that they are safe, loved, and in no way responsible for the situation.

Hire an Attorney

Friends and family may be able to recommend a local firm that is experienced in divorce law. If you need to search online for an attorney, start by visiting the state’s bar association website and reading consumer review sites. 

Working with an attorney will help you streamline your thoughts, identify your goals, and begin legal proceedings. If your split is amicable, you and your spouse may be able to reduce legal fees.  If you expect the divorce to be contentious, make certain that you hire an attorney who you trust to protect your rights and well-being.

Make Temporary Custody Arrangements

If you and your soon-to-be ex are in disagreement about who will have immediate custody of the children, work with your lawyer to get a temporary order of custody from the courts. As your divorce progresses, the issue of permanent custody arrangements will be addressed and negotiated at length. Temporary child and spousal support orders can also be sought when you apply for a temporary order of custody.

Following the above divorce law tips ensures you, your children, and your ex are prepared to meet the challenges of your new family configuration. Let Luke A. Weiland, Attorney at Law, help you navigate the legal complexities of ending a marriage in a reasonable fashion that is suitable for you and your children in a long-term setting.  Call (715) 422-6808 or visit his firm's website to schedule an initial consultation.